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Saturday, March 14, 2009

How do we match up??

I copied this from Heather.

I am not a big horoscope fan, but found this interesting. This is how our family matches up according to astrology.

The Parents: Mark (Pisces) and Paige (Libra)

You two are too nice for your own good, yielding at the slightest pressure and lacking the backbone to say "no" when it's needed. There's trouble brewing when neither parent can consistently be strong or enforce the rules. Each of you can make great strides in this area, both in parenting and in personal growth, and you and your family will be much happier and healthier because of it. The Libra mom or dad is gentle, fair, and diplomatic. You're the one to teach your children about conflict resolution -- after brushing up on it yourself! You make sure the home is peaceful and calm.

The sweet Pisces parent can spin stories and tell tales, enriching your kids' imagination. Your intuitive understanding and kindness helps the little ones confide in you. If you two can master the art of consistent discipline, your children will thrive in the firm yet loving environment you create.

Paige & Jillian (Leo)

Your Leo child loves performing for you because you make such an affectionate, encouraging, and generally rapt audience. Your little one's flair for drama is apparent from an early age, and she adores being the center of attention. You're a wonderful parent to her in part because you so enjoy her bright, happy energy. Plus, she's naturally popular (which she must have inherited from you!), so playdates, birthday parties, and other get-togethers are fun for both of you.

You can foster your child's natural creativity by taking her to plays, films, art galleries, and museums, and instilling in her your own love of art and performance. Most of all, give her all your affection and encouragement, because although your little Leo seems as courageous as a lion, her pride is easily dented if she doesn't feel she's getting the adoration she craves.

Mark & Jillian

Your Leo child's energy and confidence amaze you. This little person is so passionate! Like you, she craves adoration, which you shower over her. Unlike you, she thrives on being the center of attention. Yes, this kid is a natural performer, and her impromptu performances and occasional dramatics are all intended to keep everyone's eyes on her. That's not a problem as far as you're concerned; you've been awed from the start by the sheer power your little Leo emits. But you're also intuitive enough to understand that behind her proud, courageous exterior exists a sensitive, vulnerable heart.

Little Leo is very family-oriented, just like you, and she needs every bit of the affection and support you can give. You're a wonderful parent to this complicated child because you're able to respond to her inner needs as well as her more obvious outer ones.

Paige & Emma (Aquarius)

Your Aquarius child is naturally attracted to anyone and anything unusual. From an early age, she gravitates toward the most unique kid in the playgroup, and she loves dressing up in wild, original outfits that you'd never in a million years put together!

You're innately attuned to balance and instinctively avoid rocking the boat, so be forewarned: Your little Aquarius will go out of her way to set your expectations on end. Many of her choices and behavior throughout her childhood, and the rest of her life, will be really fresh and original, and may actually offend your sensibilities. If that happens, try to remember that she pushes the envelope in pursuit of knowledge and innovation. This may be easier if you focus on the fact that you appreciate your child's commitment to creativity, plus, you relate to her cerebral point of view.

Mark & Emma

Your Aquarius child isn't nearly as emotionally expressive as you are. Your parental instinct is to shower your little one with all the love and devotion in your heart, but little Aquarius just doesn't seem to need that kind of closeness. Of course, you're tuned in enough to her feelings to know that she's devoted to you in her own way, but don't expect her to express it as openly and selflessly as you do.

Your child is a natural innovator and needs lots of freedom to learn about the world on her own terms. Her innate intelligence will amaze you; even as a little child, Aquarius understands concepts far beyond her years! And you understand her inner need to be different -- to stand out from the crowd. Your little one will always benefit from your creative perspective and your unquestioning acceptance of her unusual personality.

Sisters: Jillian & Emma

These children are different enough to challenge and engage each other, yet similar enough to get along, for the most part. Little Aquarius wants to be unique, but unlike young Leo, he doesn't need constant praise for his original qualities. Leo wants your adoration, so she does what she can to make you laugh and applaud.

Good thing Aquarius doesn't mind giving Leo the stage. In fact, Aquarius prefers it this way, because he needs lots of time to conduct his many experiments. Leo can actually help her inventive sibling test out his theories, a dynamic that works well on both sides: Aquarius gains a lab partner, and Leo feels needed.

Since Aquarius is far less emotional than his sibling, he can inadvertently hurt Leo's feelings, and both kids are quite stubborn when challenged. Still, they can work through these issues together and be great friends growing up.

So, what do you think?:)

Thursday, January 8, 2009

Crazy Eight

I was tagged by Denyse, so here we go...

8 TV Shows I Watch..(I honestly don't watch that much T.V...and really I am beginning to think T.V. is a little overrated...but I will try to make it to 8)
1. Grey's Anatomy
2. Mystery Diagnosis
3. Ace of Cakes
4. Jon and Kate plus 8
5. House Hunters
6. What not to wear
7. Court TV
8. ________

8 Favorite Restaurants...we live in Smalltown with few choices and I really don't get out of town often, so my list is kinda lame:)
1. Tamolley's
2. Jack in the Box
3. CB's
4. Cheesecake Factory
5. Genghis Grill
6. Carabbas
7. Pop Burger (NYC)
8. California Pizza Kitchen

8 things that happened today
1.finished my notebook for my wintermini class
2.went to school
3.took the final for the wintermini class
4. dropped girls of at PDO
5.got eyebrows waxed
6.cancelled YMCA membership
7.played with Lucy in backyard
8. bathed Emma in kitchen sink

8 things I look forward to...I am going to go with Denyse's theory on this one and assume it means look forward to from here on out, not just soon
1. Mark coming home...for R&R and for good
2. Emma's 1st birthday
3. one week without school (this is next week...yippee!!!)
4. Graduating school
5. Marks next career
6. the big house in the woods we will have someday
7. enjoying an empty nest
8. Jillian learning how to write her name

8 things I wish for:
1. being debt free
2. My car to be clean....all the time
3. a laundry fairy
4. a bachelor's degree
5. to be able to drive a standard
6. Gert & Lillies to take over TCBY (or should I say Southern Maid Donuts :/) and become the next big thing
7. to cook a Thanksgiving dinner
8. did I already said a laundry fairy?;)

8 songs I just listened to....well I've been stumped, I am horrible at remebering the names of music or artists..so I will have to guess here:
1. some Christmas music
2....yeah that's all I got:)
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8 Movies I love
1. My Best Friend's Wedding
2. Annie
3. Steel Magnolia's
4. How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days
5. Lion King
6. P.S. I love You
7. My Big Fat Greek Wedding
8. Speed

Now I am supposed to tag 8 others, so:
1. Mom
2. Julie
3. Kim M
4. Kim H
5. Gaby
6. Brandi
7. Heather
8. Sandi

Sunday, December 21, 2008

Christmas

I stole this from another blog (she had way better answers than me, but I thought it would be fun anyway:)

Real tree or Artificial? we have an artificial tree...I am sure it would be wonderful to go cut down a tree and bring it home....but really, that would require way too much effort...and I would have to be in the cold
Do you like eggnog? sounds too disgusting to even try
Do you have a nativity scene? yes, 2.
Worst Christmas gift you ever received?
Favorite Christmas Movie? we always watch "Christmas Vacation", but also enjoy Charlie Browns Christmas and Elf
Have you ever recycled a Christmas present? um....
Favorite thing to eat at Christmas? I enjoy some deviled eggs
Favorite Christmas song? "Christmas Time is Here"
Travel at Christmas or stay home? typically we have traveled home to Texas, but this year we are here...so we are staying home.
Can you name all of Santa's reindeer? dasher, dancer, comet, vixon, donder, blixten, donder, rudolph
What do you want for Christmas this year? a fondue pot...and my hubby
Does Santa wrap presents or just put them under the tree? at our house, santa did not wrap gifts, only mom and dad....at Marks house, it was a mix. So we do it my way:)...although he insists one thing in the stocking is wrapped...he had that growing up.
Colored lights on house/tree or white? WHITE!! Although I am really beginning to enjoy all the colored lights on the outside...but white on the tree
Do you hang mistletoe? we haven't, but should
Favorite holiday memory as a child? i loved not being able to get to sleep because i was so excited about Christmas morning.
When and how did you learn the truth about Santa? the boy I had a crush on in 4th grade revealed the truth..it was a sad day
Do you open a gift on Christmas Eve? yes, it is always PJ's (and we open gifts with the Shepherd's)
How do you decorate your tree? not really a theme, just random ornaments that we buy each year
Snow, Love it or dread it? love looking at it, not so much driving in it..or being in it in general
Can you ice skate? yes
Do you remember your favorite gift? yes...my kitchen aid mixer!
What is the most important thing about the holidays to you? family of course
Which do you prefer, giving or receiving? not gonna lie, I LOVE receiving gifts. but, since having kids we are working really hard at teaching them the meaning of Christmas and giving..not so much receiving
Candy canes. Yum or yuck? yum!
Do you dress up for Christmas Eve or wear PJs? dress up for church and Shepherd Family Christmas...then opne our PJ's
Do you own a Santa hat? oh yes
Who do you normally spend Christmas with? Eve w/the Shepherd's, Day with mom's family

Saturday, October 25, 2008

Pro-God


I was reading a blog I follow today and came across this phrase, Pro-God, and it really struck my fancy. Over the last few months I have been apart of one too many political discussions, read up on the candidates, took quizzes to see who I may more connect with, and really struggled personally with who I think would be the best man to run our country for the next 4 years. Coincidentally sometimes I would side more with one candidate than the other or have a tie. There are issues I feel very strong about and there are some issues that I never consider. Some issues I think I am more "republican" about and others more "democrat" about. I really hate it. My friend E bought a magazine recently and it had an article titled "How to Vote without losting your soul (yes, it's possible)". I keep picking up the magazine intending to read it, yet I have not even opened. I guess I am trying to decide what it actually means...not losing my soul and all. I think when it comes to voting I like to think that I am making the decision, I hold the tie-breaking vote, the pressures on, I have to make the right decision. I know in reality it does not work that way and in the big state o' Texas, my vote won't really matter anyway. But either way I am going to vote and I pretty confident whom I will be voting for, with that being said I be praying about my decision from now until I enter the poll booth. I am making a commitment to be Pro-God this Election day.

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Tuesday, October 14, 2008

SINCE 2003....

So here it is. My first blog. Why is it only my first blog? Well, I'm a guy, and like most guys, I don't communicate my thoughts or feelings unless it is absolutely necessary to sustain life. I am, as they say, a man of few words. I never have been much of a writer either, so let me warn you now. My writing is consistantly choppy and non-linear. I switch between thoughts a lot and tend to end sentences abruptly, or run them on forever. Bear with me. So here we go, my Seinfeld blog. It's about nothing and everything all at once. It's about the thoughts that run through my head on a daily basis. It's about..... well, let me get on with it already. I am serving my third tour in Iraq and more importantly my last tour. I have been here for a little over a month and I can already tell that this is going to be the most difficult deployment of the three. It's not hard because of what is going on here in the giant sandbox. It is hard because of what I am missing out on at home. It all goes back to 2003. That's when I joined the Army and it's also when I married Paige, the woman of my dreams. Now I don't mean the supermodel running on the beach in a string bikini woman of my dreams. I mean the woman that all women should strive to be. Don't get me wrong, Paige is absolutely gorgeous. She is the most beautiful woman in my world, but that is not why I asked her to marry me. I married Paige because she is kind, tender, loving, and thoughtful. I married her because I can count on her, I can trust her, and I know that she will love me, support me, and stand by me when I need her the most. She is, like I said, the woman of my dreams. Unfortunately I deployed to Iraq shortly after we wed. It was a hard year in the desert, but it was a year spent looking foward to starting a new life with Paige. I really wasn't missing out on too much because we hadn't really started anything yet. I was home for a year before I deployed to Iraq again. Paige got pregnant about three months prior to that and I spent the next six months anxiously awaiting the day that I would be able to go home to welcome our baby girl into this world. Paige went into labor the day that I got home for leave and Jillian Grace Shepherd was born the next day. It was awesome, but I found myself unable to fully enjoy the moment knowing that I only had a couple of weeks before I would return to Iraq and complete my year long tour. Fortunately for me, most babies don't have any significant "firsts" until they are around six months old. Jillian was just starting to sit up on her own when I returned home from my second deployment, and I got to see her crawl. I got to see her first tooth, and I was there when she took her first steps. I am so thankful for all of this. Fast foward to 2008. Our second daughter, Emma Cate Shepherd was born on Valentines Day of this year. She is beautiful just like her sister and her mother. This is where it gets hard. It's hard because I have already missed out on so much. I wasn't there when Emma started crawling. I wasn't there to see her first tiny little tooth, and I will most likely not be there when she takes her first steps. Jillian is three now. She is learning so many new things and really starting to develop her very own unique personality. Paige says she's just like me. I take that as a compliment. What make me sad though, is that she's at that age where she knows I'm gone, but she doesn't really know why. I find myself wondering how she will react when I come home on leave. Will she jump into my arms when she sees me, or will she shy away, uncertain of what's going on? What makes this even worse is that I will only be home for a couple of weeks before I have to leave again. Will she feel abandoned? Will she think that I don't love her anymore? Hopefully she won't think any of these things, but I can't help but wonder. What about Paige? This is her third deployment too! She is at home without me, trying to manage the bills, raise the girls, and take care of me (with care-packages), all while going to school full time. I can't complain though. She is doing a great job! Thank you honey. I Love You! I wish I could be there to help her. After all, it is a man's responsibility to take care of his family. I am looking foward to the day when I can be home for good. Then I can take care of my family. Then the hardest times will be behind us.

Mark

Friday, September 12, 2008

Help!....suggestions please!!

I just got an iPod Nano...I am convinced this will assist me in my training for the 1/2 marathon:) I am looking for some stuff to put on it. I know this sounds silly, but I really never know who sings what, what soundstracks are good and really don't know much about podcasts. I want to get a great seletion of music to listen to while running and I would really like to subscribe to some kind of podcast. Since I am in the so much (driving to and from school, errands, etc) I would like to have something to listen to while riding...

So I want suggestions...please!!!
Plese let me know your most recent favorite music choices and why.
Let me know about podcasts, which ones you listen too and why.

I can't wait!!!




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